John O’Brien profoundly shaped the foundation, philosophy, and evolution of PLAN.
His influence runs through every part of what we do—from the way we plan with people and families, to how we think about belonging, contribution, and community. More than three decades ago, John’s ideas helped us articulate what we already believed to be true: that relationships are essential, that everyone has gifts to offer, and that a good life must be defined by the person living it.
Through his visionary thinking, generous mentorship, and deeply principled work, John offered ways of seeing, understanding, and supporting people that continue to guide and inspire us today.
He helped us define what a good life looks like—one rooted in belonging, purpose, and contribution—and how to support that life with respect and intention.
His approaches to person-directed planning encouraged people to dream together, to listen deeply, and to take meaningful action rooted in relationships. His work invited us to replace standardization with imagination, and to trust that people—when supported to lead their own lives—create better futures.
John’s reflections on citizenship, social role valorization, and inclusion challenged us to confront injustice, center lived experience, and think beyond programs. He pushed us to ask harder questions and stay deeply rooted in the values that brought us to this calling in the first place.
The ideas John and Connie Lyle O’Brien introduced to the world—such as the Five Valued Experiences, PATH and MAPS, and the enduring importance of ordinary places and roles—have become part of PLAN’s everyday language and practice.
But more than any one concept or tool, it was John’s unwavering belief in people—their uniqueness, their beauty, their worth—that shaped our community most. He reminded us that people are not problems to be solved, but mysteries to be honored. That inclusion isn’t just a strategy—it’s a commitment. That love and justice are not separate things.
John passed away peacefully this week, leaving behind an extraordinary legacy that will continue to guide and inspire us.
On a personal level, John was one of the people I most admired in this world. His influence on my thinking runs deep, but it was his *way of being* that impacted me most. He offered his attention generously. He asked thoughtful questions. He shared stories and insights with humility, always grounded in care for the people at the heart of what we do.
At PLAN, we will carry John’s legacy forward—in every relationship we nurture, every plan we facilitate, and every time we act on the belief that no one should be alone.
With deep gratitude,
Rebecca and all of us at PLAN