Workshop Session Three Recap: Mapping Personal Support Networks
In this reflective and emotionally resonant session, we explored how to map personal support networks and identify gaps. The discussion began with a tribute to John McKnight, a pioneer of asset-based community development, whose work on recognizing community assets over needs has profoundly influenced our approach to building inclusive support networks.
Reflections on Family and Network Roles
The session opened with participants sharing insights on the interconnected roles within family structures and small social networks. They reflected on the importance of mutual contributions within families, emphasizing how every member’s role contributes to fostering interdependence. This set the stage for a broader discussion on reciprocity in networks, focusing on how networks should not solely serve one person but create value for everyone involved.
Mapping Relationships: Circles of Connection
We then moved into an activity to map our own networks, breaking relationships into “circles” of intimacy, friendship, participation, and economic exchange. Participants took time to map out their personal relationships, reflecting on who occupies each circle and where they might want to strengthen connections. Many found this exercise challenging yet illuminating, recognizing that personal support networks require strategic, intentional nurturing. There was a shared sense that our fast-paced, independent culture often complicates the development of deep, sustained relationships.
Challenges of Building and Maintaining Networks
Several participants expressed feelings of loneliness when reflecting on their networks, noting that it can be difficult to move acquaintances into more intimate circles or to maintain meaningful connections over time. This exercise emphasized the need for “strategic intention and ongoing nurturing,” especially when building networks for individuals with disabilities, who may rely on these relationship for safety, support, and social engagement.
Creating a Culture of Support: “Calling the Network”
We discussed the concept of “calling the network” when challenges or transitions arise, allowing each member of the network to contribute. This approach highlights the importance of proactive communication and regular check-ins to ensure that everyone is aware of any changing needs and can offer timely support. The session concluded with an emphasis on the importance of connection, underscoring how intentional relationship-building can create a culture of support that benefits all.
Looking Ahead
Next week, we’ll delve into practical steps to consolidate these mapped relationships into a cohesive, active and engaged network. Participants are encouraged to think about someone they support and begin drafting a network map for that person. By fostering these connections with intention and reciprocity, we can create lasting support systems that are there when we need them most.
Final Thoughts
This session revealed the complexity and emotional depth involved in mapping our relationships. It reminded us that strong networks require a foundation of mutual respect, shared commitment, and ongoing care. Each person left with a renewed understanding of the value in “calling the network” and ensuring that everyone in our lives has a role in a larger, supportive community.